Thanks for joining us for another edition of our interview series, Unveiling Layers. Today, we’re joined by the beautiful Chatonne Kingsley, a Miami-based escort, as we get to know the woman behind the profile.
I have lived numerous places but currently call Miami home. I enjoy the warm weather, the proximity to a major airport, and the offerings of a large city. You will find me completely authentic and I am very comfortable in my own skin. I encourage and instill the same comfort and ease in others. I have enjoyed a fulfilling professional career and now I am fortunate to simply enjoy the companionship of extraordinary gentlemen. Highly sensual as well as social, I find even the best pleasures are most enjoyable when shared with someone special.
For years I was in a relationship that was rigid and controlling, where my sexuality was somewhat shamed. After that relationship ended, I chose to actively embrace and explore my sensual side and sought to provide the same open and safe environment for my partners. What I like about this arrangement, and how I evolved into this, is that it allows for complete honesty about needs, fantasies, desires, fun! Unlike online dating where someone may misrepresent their marital status or whether they truly want a relationship or are simply seeking non-attached fun, this arrangement allows for and encourages exploration, pleasure and disclosure. It is the most honest form of dating I’ve ever found. No games. No agendas. We meet as long as we both find it mutually agreeable and release expectations of any future script. This openness has allowed for some truly incredible connections.
A big smile on their face and, “wow, you’re beautiful!” when we first meet always puts me at ease and lets me know it’s going to be a great evening!
Last-minute requests are rarely possible. Screening and booking in advance allow us to prioritize our mutual safety and gives me the time to arrive relaxed, composed, and at my best—with my attention and focus entirely on you.
I have not toured, only FMTY. I am enamored with the idea of a tour to NYC next year though. Let me know where I should stay and if you would like to meet!
I have traveled a tremendous amount and would love to do more, perhaps with a fun companion. The gym is my therapist and I also practice yoga regularly. I read copiously and I am always pursuing some new subject that intrigues me. Art, design, architecture, botanical gardens, museums of any kind—I love these experiences and find all pleasures are best when shared. City stroll or nature walk? Count me in! A true foodie, I adore fine dining but equally fun are simpler culinary adventures—a noodle house, a Japanese tea ceremony, a famed falafel food truck or a bourbon tasting. An engaged evening of live jazz and laughter is far better than a movie where we cannot talk. Relaxing with a soapy bath, a bottle of champagne and massages is true transcendence. I’ve recently begun writing short-form erotica and am excited to have these stories available through my website soon.
Embrace your individuality and trust your own voice. Comparison is truly the thief of joy and being anything other than your authentic self will only lead to burnout. Take care of your mental health. Kindness to others can only begin with kindness to yourself.
And, finally, be collaborative. I’ve been fortunate enough to have some incredibly successful providers give me a bit of advice, feedback or encouragement that was invaluable and I am truly grateful for their time and energy.
More often than not my clients are hardworking professionals with demanding lives wishing to maximize their leisure time with the company of an intelligent and elegant woman. I value these ongoing connections where trust and familiarity deepen over time, allowing each visit to become even more enjoyable than the last.
The beauty product I swear by is: The Skinceuticals skincare line, Tom Ford Vanilla Sex perfume
The nicest place I've ever traveled to is: Bhutan, but also Japan, Mongolia and India. I love places that are so culturally different from my own that it challenges my assumptions.
My greatest turn-on is: Kindness. But I also go weak in the knees for a great smile.
My favorite guilty pleasure is: A massage. If I had the means I would have one daily.
My favorite food is: Steak with a great Cabernet.
What books have impacted your life: Sex at Dawn, The Ethical Slut, and More Than Two profoundly influenced my views on sexuality and relationships and shaped my belief that we are not all wired to be monogamous and that caring relationships with more than one person are absolutely possible.